Bad Job vs. Miserable Job.
It isn't uncommon to hear someone say that so-and-so has a good job. If you ask that someone what a good job is, you'll get a variety of answers depending on the person. For some, a good job is about being paid well, for others it's about the prestige of working for a well-known company, and for others still it might be about having the freedom to avoid sitting behind a desk all day in an office. We also hear people say that so-and-so has a bad job, which can mean that they are underpaid, have to do manual labor, or sit in an office without ventilation or natural light.
People who are miserable in their jobs dread going to work and come home frustrated, defeated and weary.
It is almost entirely subjective.
What is not subjective is the definition of a miserable job, because it's largely the same whether you are an executive, waiter, teacher or professional football player. People who are miserable in their jobs dread going to work and come home frustrated, defeated and weary.
Misery's Impact
The cost of job misery is very real, both for individuals who are miserable and for the families and friends of the people who must live with them. Scores of people suffer every day as they trudge off to jobs that make them more cynical, unhappy and frustrated than they were when they left. Over time, this dull pain can erode the self-confidence and passion of even the strongest people, which in turn affects their spouses, children and friends in subtle but profound ways.
Organizations are not immune to the effects of misery either. Some studies show as high as 77 percent of workers are dissatisfied with their work, and that the primary driver of job dissatisfaction is not pay or benefits, but rather the relationship that an employee has with his or her supervisor. Such widespread dissatisfaction kills morale and productivity within companies, and drives up the cost of recruiting, hiring and retraining new employees, all of which takes a huge, if not easily measured, toll on the bottom line. Gallup estimates that the annual cost to the American economy due to lost productivity is somewhere in the vicinity of $350 billion.
The Three Signs
The causes of job misery are as simple as they are common, and are the subject of my most recent book, The Three Signs of a Miserable Job. What I'd like to do here is explore just one of those causes, which is the most obvious and perhaps important of the three. I call it anonymity.
Anonymity
No employee, regardless of how much money he makes or how much she loves the nature of the work she does, can be fulfilled without a manager who knows and cares about them as a unique individual.
Yes, that seems ridiculously obvious, which makes the pervasiveness of anonymity so puzzling. Ask most employees whether their managers really understand them, whether they are genuinely interested in them as human beings, and most will say 'no'. Ask their managers the same question, 'why don't you get to know and understand your employees more?', and assuming that they'll admit the problem; here are some of the likely reasons:
Gallup estimates that the annual cost to the American economy due to lost productivity is somewhere in the vicinity of $350 billion.
Overcoming Anonymity
Managers who struggle with demonstrating a real interest in their employees need to do one or both of the following. First, they have to overcome their fear of being politically incorrect. Yes, our current legal climate makes it necessary for managers to be careful about the kinds of personal interview questions they ask. But that doesn't mean that they should continue in that same vain after an employee comes on board.
Of course, that doesn't mean all personal topics are suddenly fair game. It just means that managers should act like human beings, and not the automatons that our legal system requires them to be during the interview process.
Second, managers need to overcome their fear of coming across as insincere. That's not to say that they need to get comfortable being insincere. They just need to realize that it is okay if employees initially suspect that they are being manipulative. They have to have the courage and wisdom to realize that the truth about their intentions will eventually become clear after they demonstrate consistent, genuine interest in their employees as people.
About Patrick Lencioni
The Table Group
Patrick Lencioni is the author of 10 business books including his latest release, The Advantage, and the best-seller, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team. He is the founder and president of The Table Group, a management consulting firm focused on organizational health. To learn more about Patrick and his firm, please visit www.tablegroup.com.